For Men: How to Read the Body Signals that Women Display

Are you currently dating and hoping you can read a Woman’s mind so you would now what to do next? Well, men have a different point of view than women and we should know that they think differently. Women are quite transparent with their feelings – if you know how to read them and catch on.

In our society, women should be the one pursued and we men should be the first ones to make a move. A woman sends a lot of signals to attract the ones they like by sending subtle messages. Guys who recognize these signals tend to be lucky and find their partner sooner. For those guys who do not catch on, you risk to lose the interest of the woman for you and you leave them free to find other partners.

If you want to learn, then here are some lessons for you so you would know when a woman is interested with you.

1. The extended gaze –  This is when a woman makes eye contact with you for more than the normal gaze. This would mean that when she locks her eyes on you and you both hold each others gaze for more than one or two second, then she is interested in you. When she does this, make a reply by narrowing your gaze and looking back at her. Remember: do not stare, you just look ok?Make sure you read this subtle message and make an appropriate response because when a man fails to respond, she loses her interest thinking that you have no interest in her and she moves on.

2. The Check Out – A woman checks out a man just as much as a man checks out a woman. The woman does this in subtle ways. She will start from the face, checking out how it is being taken care of, then downwards to your hands and feet. You want to make sure that you are well-groomed, you keep your hair neat, your face fresh, your hands and feet clean and tidy as well. When the woman checks you out and you see a smile on her face, it means she is interested and it’s your time to move now.

3.Dilated Pupils – Everytime a person likes what he sees, his pupils will dilate. When you see a woman checking you out or talking with you in a date and her pupils are dilated: this means she likes you. This is applicable for both men and women. So try looking for the signs from her eyes, watch out for dilated pupils and make your move.

4.Blinking – When dating if you see a woman blink at you, it means she wants to get your attention. A woman is blinking so she can attract your attention.

5. The Flicker – The flicker pertains to the rapid movement of the eye from side to side. When the woman does the flicker on you while dating (moving her pupils back and forth in a semi rapid pace), she is looking for some signs that you are interested in her. Some say that when you see this, this means that she already approves for a kiss. And so you go and make the most out of your time.

These are just a few of the subtle body signals that women give off when they are interested in a guy. So make sure you have this in mind when dating. Goodluck!

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8 Basic Tips for Online Dating


Meeting face to face with someone for the first time sure brings the feeling of thrill, nervousness, and excitement. Bear in mind, however, that although you have gotten close by talking about many things online, you still need to be always on guard when dating with a stranger or someone you barely know.

Below are some tips to help you have a safe date.

Set your meeting place, date, and time. Never let him pick you up or drive you home. If you decide to go to dinner, then meet him at the restaurant. If you are nervous about going alone, then consider a double date. It’s also a good idea to meet in a public place where a lot of people can see you.

Pay for half the bill. For sure, you don’t want to be haunted by the feeling that you owe him anything. And while it’s respectful for a man to offer to pay the bill, you aren’t sure if he really feels like it. It is therefore not a bad for a woman to go dutch by paying half of the bill. Doing so won’t make you feel you have any obligation to return the favor.

Avoid alcohol on your first date. Alcohol always affects the way you think; sometimes, even the way you act. If you just can’t say no to alcohol on your first meeting, then have only one or two. It’s best not to drink alcohol at all.

Bring your own car. Make sure to have your own means of transportation when going to the meeting place. Make sure also that your car have enough gas.

Don’t think that the man you’re dating with is safe. Just because he said he is religious, doesn’t mean he’s safe. Do not put your whole trust to him even if you’ve already been talking online for months.

Trust your gut feeling. If you feel that something isn’t right, don’t try real hard to make things feel ok. Be observant and find out what drives you to have such feeling. You can leave immediately if you notice that there’s really something wrong going on.

Let a family member and a friend know you are meeting someone. Tell them, where and what time you are going to meet. While on your date, you can even call to tell them everything’s going fine.

Be alert. Remain alert even if there’s a great chemistry between you. Don’t forget to bring your phone.

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